John Y. Brown, III

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Recovering Politician

THEN: Secretary of State (KY), 1996-2004; Candidate for Lieutenant Governor, 2007 NOW: JYB3 Group (Owner) -public affairs consulting firm; Miller Wells law firm (Of counsel) Full Biography: link

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Horse Racing

Favorite horse racing story.

When my son was in kindergarten his school had a tradition of a stick horse derby race. Parents take it seriously.

There were rumors of moms and dads advising their children on tricks and techniques for winning…and I didn’t want our son to be at a disadvantage.
So I took him out to our backyard to show him some stick horse racing tricks of my own–which I was making up as I go.
The key, I said, was staying focused on running hard no matter what. I demonstrated. Tucking the stick part of the stick horse between my legs and running back and forth as fast as I could. Until I stepped into a hole in the yard and tripped.
At that point I was jarred from my “hyper-competitive parent” mode and looked up and around me. I realized there was at least on neighbor watching me racing on a stick horse in my back yard. And injuring myself.
She was courteous enough to pretend she was looking in another direction in that way that says, “I’m so embarrassed for you that I’m going to do you the favor of pretending I didn’t see that. But I did. And, yes, you looked that ridiculous.”
I went inside and put ice on my ankle.
And didn’t go outside to the backyard again for several weeks. Until I had some dignified and serious reason to be there.
Still, the stick horse race went well. My son finished “in the money” so to speak. I was proud. And I like to think I may have helped contribute to his successful run.
It was a proud moment that made me think to myself in that loving way, “Like father, like son.” Sort of.

John Y. Brown, III: Derby Brush with Celebrities

Derby brush with celebrities…..

OK…yeah, I went to Derby…and, yeah, I tried spotting the celebs. I saw Fred Willard (who is a great comic I have long admired). I saw three people who seemed to be Brad Pitt but none were. I saw two people who appeared to be Cindi Lauper and one was.

For the past few years I’ve watched “The Real Housewives of….(fill in the blank with a city)” with my wife.

Yes, it was my wife’s idea. But only at first. What I didn’t realize is that watching that show was really just preparation for today’s big moment when I met Vicki Gunvalson, Real Housewife of Orange County.

My good friend John Esham (right) and I approached The OC Real Housewife and found her very very approachable and pleasant.

Of course, this picture with Vicki Gunvalson was really just a ruse for John and I to get our picture taken with authentic Louisville celeb and Unbridled Eve impresario, Tonya York Dees.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: What Movie Describes Your Life?

I was remembering today when Al Gore explained that he and Tipper were whom the author of the novel and later hit movie Love Story was based on.

The movie starred a young, dashing and quite handsome Ryan O’Neal and the lovely and endearing Ali McGraw. Gore claimed he was played by Ryan O’Neal.

Not Ali McGraw.

The author later disputed that claim… but that’s beside the point. It’s fun to think that a celluloid couple remind you of you and your spouse.

Anyway, it made me wonder if there was a movie that had characters that reminded my wife and me of each other. Both individually and even the way they related to one another.

I wanted to suggest Love Story but knew it wouldn’t pass muster.

We agreed, however, that the couple in Albert Brooks Lost in America was a pretty close parallel to us.

Albert Brooks is no Ryan O’Neal in the looks department but seems to think more like I do. An advertising exec who wants to drop out of society and repeat a motor home version of Easy Rider. And fails miserably at it.

As for the female lead, Ali McGraw is lovely but Julie Haggerty is lovely, too, and is probably a lot sweeter. And even better, Julie Haggerty’s character doesn’t die at the end of the movie.

So, we’re going with Lost in America.

How about you?

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Cholesterol

What doth it profit a man to reduceth his cholesterol if he CRS?

That’s my dilemma.

I’m in a tiny minority who respond well to statins (reducing my cholesterol levels) but experience significant memory loss on the flip side.

And it’s true with any statin. I’ve tried about 4 different ones.

My doctor, thinking the memory problems were minor, even suggested it may be worth the payoff.

That reducing cholesterol by 80 points is worth struggling to remember an old phone number or friend’s name you hadn’t seen in years was worth the trade off.

So I tried again.

Within 3 days I was leading a conference call with a client and had my boss and several other colleagues on. Three times within 15 minutes I could not remember my boss’ name.

I told my doc, whose name I was fortunate enough to remember, and he said best to look for alternatives to statins….I agree.

But won’t hold my breath.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: A 30 Year Love

We’ve been together now for just over 30 years.

I remember our first weekend together. I was just 17 and it was late. And I found you and it’s been a love affair ever since.

Oh sure…there’s been disappointments….periods of boredom and wishing your were different.

Yet you would always finds way to surprise me. To keep it fresh. We grew and changed in our own individual ways — and still stayed together.

That first late night 30 years ago I knew you were special. That you were somehow made with me in mind.

And we’re still together –and I hope that never changes.

Thank you, Taco Bell.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Family Conversations

Great moments in family conversations.

My wife, my son (a high school senior) and I went out for dinner last night.

As is often is the case, my son and wife were having a conversation and I felt like a 6th man on the bench who may get playing time if either began to tire.

My son was excitedly—yet matter-of-factly—explaining that he was learning in school about anthropology and that polygamy was superior to monogamy as a societal partnering arrangement.

My wife, Rebecca, excitedly—yet matter-of-factly (and a little defensively)—was willing to argue for monogamy. I sat entranced though pretending to be more interested in picking through my salad.

When my son couldn’t think of the word for women having multiple husbands, I chimed in from the bench, “polyandry.”

Although neither side was tiring, I was about to get some playing time. “So, John, what do you think?” my beloved wife, Rebecca, queried with that tone that simultaneously reminded me both of the first time I heard the term “united front” and the first time I slept on the couch.

I glanced at my son who I’ve played enough basketball with to develop head signals. Although we never had a head signal for an alley-oop dunk (since neither of us can dunk), the look he gave me would have been it.

He was saying to me, “C’mon dad, I got your back. Let’s have some fun with mom.” It was a touching father-son moment but it was time for me to choose a side.

Of course, I believe in monogamy. Always have and always will. But that wasn’t the decision I was faced with.

The decision was, At what point do you make peace with the fact—even if it’s just for fun—that you will never, ever make an alley-oop dunk in life?

Yesterday was that day for me.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: A “Mark Twain” American

Facing up to major shortcomings in what you know. And don’t know.

I like to think of myself as what I’ll call a “Mark Twain American.” An American who understands our culture in common sense terms and isn’t a person who is especially impressed with pomp and circumstance –and someone who easily amused by those who are slaves to creating impossible public images for themselves and the things they value.

Sure part of that is a surly juvenilism….but part is surely authentic, too.

An example. I know a man about my age (who shall remain nameless) who was at Keeneland the other day and was served lunch. This friend of man (err..this man…who isn’t me), was searching for his eating utensils and unraveled his table napkin and out tumbled the silverware. As people nearby stared–part perturbed; part irritated with me.

I tried quickly to organize–properly set– the forks, knife and spoon in hopes of going unnoticed. I may have gotten it right. But even a “Mark Twain American” ought to know where silverware goes on a set table. I knew they eventually went in my hands and then the food. But will research tonight where they begin our next dinner.

John Y. Brown, III: “The Business Model Innovation Strategy”

About a year ago I met an unforgettable fella, Saul Kaplan, from Rhode Island who visited KY to help us explore ways to help Louisville and Lexington realize their entrepreneurial potential.

He spoke in a bracing and engaging way about making cultural changes to communities that lead to an organic improvement in leadership and to an accelerated entrepreneurial culture–both in the private and public sectors.

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I just got word earlier today that the hyper-energetic Kaplan has completed a new book titled, “The Business Model Innovation Factory.”

It will help us reingeneer business strategically to stay ahead of the trends and challenges.

I plan to buy today and hunker down for a day or two (or three) to pore over myself!

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Perception Matters

Perception matters. Sometimes more than we want to admit to ourselves.

An example. On vacation last week my 17 year old son and I played pick up basketball several days–playing three on three.

The first day was rough. We got beat 2 or 3 games.

The second day, however, we did very well…and won 2 out of 3 games–and won convincingly.

As we drove back to our room I told my son how well he played and noted that I played much better too.

Adding, “We did pretty darn well out there today, didn’t we, Johnny?

“Dad,” my son said quizzically, “They were 10 and 12 years old.”

Sometimes it’s good to have a friend or loved one gently help you perceive things clearer than you seem to be at the moment.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Over Analyzing

When I was in my early 20s a friend and priest told me that I had a tendancy to over-analyze thing.

He said I am the type person who has to “understand first” before I will experience life.

He said I had it backward.

That with life, we experience it first and, if we’re lucky, we understand a little of it.

He was right.

I just listened to the song Kodachrome by Paul Simon. I didn’t understand ut but thoroughly enjoyed it.

I’m not sure that Paul Simon understood what he was singing about–but glad he sang it anyway.

Today I will try to experience more and worry less about understanding it.

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