John Y. Brown, III

Photo Here

Recovering Politician

THEN: Secretary of State (KY), 1996-2004; Candidate for Lieutenant Governor, 2007 NOW: JYB3 Group (Owner) -public affairs consulting firm; Miller Wells law firm (Of counsel) Full Biography: link

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Carbon Copy

What if God inadvertently left a carbon copy of the answers to life’s ultimate questions in the garbage can next to the driveway leading up to the Garden of Eden?

And Eve found them (we have to assume Adam wasn’t very curious and probably wouldn’t have noticed) and after sniffing the fresh carbon several times decided to share the answers with humankind and as a result we all behaved daily like perfect little model human beings?

jyb_musingsWouldn’t that be embarrassing?

I think after a few Biblical Days God would probably get bored and shake up all the pieces and start over again.

In other words, it’s OK if the world doesn’t make sense to you right now and you aren’t sure what you should do with your life or even what you should do at 4:30pm this afternoon.

It helps keep God busy. And entertained. At least that’s what I think.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Monday Morning Mania and Marmalade

jyb_musingsIt’s one of those Monday mornings that feels like I am about to take a major test I waited until the last minute to study for…

Because I thought I could pull it off…

But realize now I was probably mistaken…

For a class I didn’t want to sign up for but did anyway because I thought it would be good for me…

And two weeks ago had the opportunity to drop but didn’t and now the deadline has passed…

And decide if I gorge myself on a sweet roll and loud Motown music while telling myself “In the scheme of things…..this is not a big deal” that I  briefly feel better ….

Until after the second sweet roll I start feeling both guilty, anxious, and now nauseous at the exact same time I realize listening to Lady Marmalade for the third time is two times too many…

And I look over my notes one last time and hope the questions on the test turn out to be the few I know the answer to…

As I realize that this is just another Monday ….like every other Monday. And the way I always feel before a test. And, awww hell, it will be fine…

And even if it’s not fine and I do poorly, it will still be fine…

And turn back on Lady Marmalade and it sounds even better the third time than it did the first time…

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Picture of Food

I feel sometimes like I don’t post enough pictures of food I am about to eat.

Frankly, I don’t eat many meals that are that interesting or that others would probably want to know about.

But I want to fit in and had a friend of a friend send me a picture of a meal he found on Facebook recently of something someone somewhere was about to eat.

jyb_musingsHe wasn’t sure of the entire backstory — only that someone was hungry and took a picture—but was able to download it and send to me to share so I could hit my food pic quota this month on Facebook.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Plaid

I am 50 years old now and yes, I  will, on occassion, when my wardrode is limited and it is the weekend, throw on plaid shorts and a plaid short-sleeve button down shirt.

I am 50. And it just doesn’t matter that much.

OK. That’s not the truth. It is not my age and limited wardrobe thay is to blame.

I will admit it, a few years ago when I was in Hawaii I saw some young surfer dudes wearing plaid and plaid and it worked for them–even though I knew it wasn’t supposed to.

While in Hawaii I didn’t buy any of those plaid shirts or plaid shorts (I already had some at home),  but did buy the surfer dude casual shoes that looked ragged and pre-worn but seemed to help make the plaid on plaid scheme work.

jyb_musingsAnd that is the real reason I have  recently tried  wearing this plaid ensemble.

I thought with the shoes and the right youthful attitude I could oull it off. But I got a good look at myself in the mirror over the weekend and relaized that instead of looking like a slightly aging former surfer dude I instead looked like a 50 year old guy with bad plaid clothes who went to Hawaii a few years ago and bought some surfer dude shoes because he thought he could wear them with his plaid clothes back home and look like a slightly aging former surfer dude.

And was sorely mistaken and no one has had the heart to tell him.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: When an Apology isn’t an Apology

Click here to order

Click here to order

Since I was recently part of a book on dealing effectively with crisis, this piece caught my attention.

AOL CEO brashly and brazenly fired an employee on a conference call last week. An audio of the firing was released to the internet embarrassing the CEO. He today apologized to everyone on the call (1000 employees) via email.

That is a start. But struck me as more of a CYA response than a genuine and heartfelt apology.

He may have had good reason for firing this individual. I don’t know. But if he truly wanted to apologize he should do so on the same (or more personal) medium where the behavior occurred. In this case, a conference call.

jyb_musingsAn email is just slightly more personal than a text message.

Or classified ad making a declaration.

If Mr. Armstrong truly wanted to make a real apology that his employees could trust and use to reconsider their thoughts about last weeks’ inflammatory firing incident he could have dug a little deeper, been a little less public, and a little more personal than a blast email with a stock mea culpa.

Just my two cents.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: 50 Shades of Grey

Click here to purchase. You know you want to,

At bookstore now and just passed by section selling all things “50 Shades of Grey.”

I am intrigued but walk in by.

And there are a lot of us in this category that the publisher is missing out on selling to.

jyb_musingsI am at an age where I would probably buy and read “25 Shades of Grey.”

And “13 Shades of Grey” would be a no-brainer.

But I just don’t have the energy or curiousity do bother with 50 of anything.

No matter how tantalizing.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Pride

jyb_musingsI am a proud Kentuckian.

Proud to be from my beautiful state.

Proud mostly of my people—my fellow Kentuckians.

Who are some of the kindest, wisest, plain-talking, commonsensical, and just downright decent human beings you could ever hope to meet.

One shining example, if you please:

From The Huffington Post:

Whenever Stephen Colbert debuts one of his “People Who Are Destroying America”segments, you know you’re about to meet someone wonderful. It’s the brilliance of “The Colbert Report” that anything labelled as horrible or destructive is actually something that restores your faith in humanity.

Wednesday’s subject of Colbert’s fake ire was no exception. In fact, the story of Mayor Johnny Cummings of Vicco, Ky. and the people of his town is so heartwarming you might want to plan a visit there. If you recall, Vicco made headlines in January for being one of the smallest towns in America to pass a non-discrimination law. Naturally, this development sent chills down the spine of “Stephen Colbert”… not to be confused with Stephen Colbert.

While the segment offers plenty of laughs, we challenge you to watch the last moment without tearing up a little bit.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Priceline

Whenever I use Priceline.com, I am usually fairly satisfied with the outcome.

But lately I’ve started to worry that William Shatner isn’t as intimidating as he used to be.

The Kung Fu punch pose isn’t as daunting as it once was.

I would feel better about using Priceline.com if he had a sidekick.

jyb_musingsLike Tonto to the Lone Ranger or Robin to Batman.

Maybe a tanned, rested and ready Mr Spock?

I think the right sidekick could help William Shatner (Captain Kirk) get an extra 10-15% off every deal he negotiates for us.

It’s time.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: Coffee

jyb_musingsI have been an avid coffee drinker for three decades and when traveling I like to try different coffee shops and coffee brands.

What is my standard for determining if a new kind of coffee I haven’t tried before truly measures up?

Easy. …One simple test.

After the first deep gulp (or second sip) do I start to hear this song play in my head?

If the answer is “Yes,” the coffee brand has made the cut and gets placed alongside Cafe Buestelo, Heine Bros, Cafe Du Monde (which I relied on while studying for the bar exam)  and other great coffees I favor.

If “no,” it gets filed alongside Sanka, Nescafe, Maxwell House and a few dozen others coffee brands that have tried but come up short for me personally.

John Y’s Musings from the Middle: The Bedeviling Beneficence of the Addict

jyb_musingsThe flip side of addiction is an unraveling of many things: hurt, loss, fear, shame, loneliness, emptiness and aridness. Coupled with an intensity of feelings, passions, dreams, and idealism —all surrounded by an overwhelming craving for love and affirmation to fill in the gaping pieces missing from an un-whole life.

And then there is the undisciplined promise and lingering sense of pending defeat made endurable only from the well of undeveloped latent –and misguided– talent.

The addict is in many ways the ultimate tightrope walker. If his demons prevail and he falls to one side, he dies. But if he taps into some sort of divinity in the universe or in himself, he falls to the other side. And soars.

No public person I can think of embodies this beautifully treacherous balancing act more harrowingly (and inspiringly) than Robert Downey Jr.

He has ridden the roller coaster of addiction–and its flip side– publicly and dramatically into our hearts and minds–and souls.

Robert Downey Jr wrote and performed this piano ballad, Snakes (first video)

And more recently in a duet with Sting performed the aptly named Driven to Tears (second video).

In each video he shows us a glimpse of the depth of the brilliant and painful artistry tamped down so deeply inside this man-boy who can and has fallen far and hard. And soared so high and fantastically that only he can describe it. And he has touched us as we enjoy the honor and pleasure of witnessing his talent escape the bonds of his addictions and soar before us as we smile and applaud.

Here’s hoping he keeps falling to the beautiful side of his dichotomous daily walk— and soaring for yet another day.

And here’s hoping the very same glorious reprieve for all other addicts.

John Y.’s Video Flashback (1995):

John Y’s Links: